Thoughts on getting married

Last month I shot this look with Katya so she can use it on her website, you can see it here, and I have wanted to share it with you as I love the photos and dress, but somehow I couldn’t find the right topic for it. I have been scribbling down titles and notes of all the topics that I want to write and share but they just didn’t feel right for now. So I just thought that sometimes there is no need to plan, maybe starting to write from the heart is what should work. So this is what I did…

This July has been such a roller coaster of emotions, and we are only half way through! In the beginning of the month I was ready to start announcing and sharing something that I have been planning but then nerves kicked in and my mind was not aligned with my heart. In a few words, I panicked!

If I was to start sharing and putting it out there, then I would be all stressed during a very special time of my life, which only happens once, my wedding.

So I decided to take a step back and give myself the time it requires, I though a bit more logically without comparing myself to others and criticising me for the things I hadn’t achieved.

Just kassi shoot IMMA Dublin Just Kassi Silver dress

The weeks are passing by and now our wedding date seems closer and closer. In a month I will be heading to Greece to get all the last details organised and enjoy a bit of summer weather. Most of my to-do list has been ticked off but I am sure that there will be so many more things to consider while I am there.

Organising a wedding from abroad is not an easy task, especially when you don’t have a wedding planner but somehow after a year of preparations and a few flights to Greece, everything seems to be falling into place.

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When Antonis proposed back in December 2015 the thought of having a wedding in the summer of 2016 seemed too rushed and something that would make me panic. There would have been time to get things done, but I am the type of person that wants time to simmer situations and to wait for the excitement to die down so we can all get planning.

This is something that I realised while I grow older; I always need more time than I think I need, to get things going and to action plans or projects. It might be because I am getting older, but mostly it might be because when I really want something special to happen I panic and get scared and it feels like I have to climb mountain Everest and forget that I just have to enjoy the ride. This does not apply just to organising a wedding; it applies to many things in life.

Now that we are almost on the other side of mountain Everest, and most of the details are set all I want is to enjoy the time until my wedding and the actual day as it will just fly by.

Kilmainham shoot wedding thoughts just kassi blog

{Dress by Dorothy Perkins}

Wedding thoughts justkassi Wedding thoughts justkassi blog {Shoes by Penneys } also seen here – Shop the real Gucci shoes here 

The dress is a few seasons back and is not available to purchase now but I have selected a few dresses that are similar to it in case you are interested in it.collage white silver dress

Shop first dress from the left here

Shop second dress here

Shop third dress here

Shop fourth dress here 

Photos by Katya Koliban 

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